What is a best man?

Being chosen as the best man in a wedding isn’t just a title, it’s an honor that carries deep meaning. It’s about trust, loyalty, and friendship that has stood the test of time.

But what exactly does the best man do? How did this role begin, and how it has evolved in today’s world, especially in the context of magical destination weddings on a sun-kissed wedding beach like Cabo?

Where the Tradition Began

Originally, he was chosen not only for his loyalty but also for his swordsmanship. He was the groom’s protector, sometimes even helping to “guard” the bride from rival suitors! Over time, this role transitioned from protector to planner, supporter, and friend.

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The Best Man's Role: Before, During & After the Wedding

Before the wedding, the best man plays a key role in planning, helping organize the bachelor party, coordinating with groomsmen, managing logistics, and offering steady emotional support to the groom. 

On the wedding day itself, the best man stands proudly by the groom’s side, takes care of the rings if needed, delivers a heartfelt toast at the reception, and helps maintain a joyful, relaxed atmosphere throughout the celebration.

Once the vows are exchanged and the couple is off on their honeymoon, your presence still matters. Whether helping with packing, arranging transport, or simply being a voice of calm, you continue to be part of the love story. The title of best man wedding may be for one day, but the friendship it honors lasts a lifetime.

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Why Is Villa Del Palmar the Ideal Setting for This Role?

For a Cabo wedding that blends elegance, intimacy, and the beauty of the Baja coastline, Villa del Palmar Cabo is the dream location. Its thoughtful service, breathtaking wedding venues, and luxurious atmosphere make it the ideal setting to honor the responsibility and joy of being the best man.

Being the best man isn’t just about tradition, it’s about standing by someone who matters deeply, not just on the big day, but for all the days that follow.